The Four Agreements
by Don Miguel Ruiz · first published 1997
77% recommend18% neutral5% critical
Why HN recommends it
Short, easy-to-read guide to personal freedom through four simple principles, especially not taking things personally and not making assumptions; suits readers feeling stuck on others' behavior or self-criticism.
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In The Four Agreements, don Miguel Ruiz reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, The Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love. A New York Times bestseller for over a decade An international bestseller published in 52 languages worldwide "This book by don Miguel Ruiz, simple yet so powerful, has made a tremendous difference in how I think and act in every encounter." — Oprah Winfrey "Don Miguel Ruiz's
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