She Comes First
by Ian Kerner · first published 2004
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As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: "What do I do?" Ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue.Welcome to the world of She Comes First, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kern
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on “A third of Americans now show signs of clinical anxiety or depression” ↗She Comes First. Pretty much the sole reason I've been told over and over again for the past decade that ours was "the best sex [they've] ever had". If you have sex with women, you need to read it.
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