
Party of One
by Anneli Rufus, Anneli S. Rufus · first published 2002
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…to loneliness. There are some good books on the subject. Solitude: A Return to the Self by Anthony Storr was one of the first I read and had a strong focus on psychology. For a more opinionated text, Party of One: The Loners' Manifesto by Anneli Rufus was good at building confidence in living this way.
on “Ask HN: How do you deal with alienation?” ↗…Kaufmann http://www.amazon.com/Universe-Roger-Freedman/dp/142923153X Existentialism from Dostoevsky to Sartre http://www.amazon.com/Existentialism-Dostoevsky-Sartre-Revis... A Kierkegaard Anthology http://www.amazon.com/Kierkegaard-Anthology-Soren/dp/0691019... Party of One: The Loner's Manifesto by Anneli Rufus http://www.annelirufus.com/partyofone/ The Mindbody Prescription by John E. Sarno http://www.amazon.com/The-Mindbody-Prescription-Healing-Body...
on “Ask HN: Which books changed your life?” ↗…an hour with your iPod (or equivalent). No matter what the particular exercise, the fact is that it will usually get you out of your own head for awhile. Aside from those I would suggest maybe reading Party of One [1] and/or Quiet [2], as they bring to light very well the fact that mainstream society unfairly and illogically looks down upon those who prefer aloneness. Being surrounded by laughing groups of sociable…
on “Ask HN: I'm a really lonely college student. What can I do?” ↗I must submit a third vote for Susan Cain's Quiet[1]. This book is a great revisitation (and arguably a more diplomatic treatment) of the topic of Anneli Rufus' 2003 book Party of One: The Loner's Manifesto[2]: introversion, lonerism, individualism, etc. While the latter - as its subtitle intimates - is far more geared toward introverts/loners, Cain's book is effectively an overview…
on “Ask HN: What book changed your life in 2013?” ↗