
Mate
by Tucker Max · first published 2015
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"The #1 bestselling pioneer of "fratire" and a leading evolutionary psychologist team up to create the dating book for guys Whether they conducted their research in life or in the lab, experts Tucker Max and Dr. Geoffrey Miller have spent the last 20+ years learning what women really want from their men, why they want it, and how men can deliver those qualities. The short answer: become the best version of yourself possible, then show it off. It sounds simple, but it's not. If it were, Tinder would just be the stuff you use to start a fire. Becoming your best self requires honesty, self-awaren
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Read and internalize "Mate" by Tucker Max (search for ISBN 9780316349437 on Amazon, no affiliation). I read it when I was already happily maried. But this is the book I wish I read when I was about your age and that I seriously…
on “Ask HN: My lack of dating prospects is severly impacting my career. What to do?” ↗…and the pandemic. Like others have said, it will not solve all your problems, but it will definitely make you feel better about yourself. I actually came to CrossFit through reading Tucker Max's book "Mate" (ISBN-10: 0316375365) which I also recommend you read. Good luck brother.
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