
Chimp Paradox
by Steve Peters · first published 2016
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2015–2023first – last mentioned
86% recommend14% neutral
Why HN recommends it
Gives a simple mental model of how emotions and impulses drive behaviour, making it easier to notice and manage irrational reactions; suits anyone wanting practical self-management and stress or anxiety help.
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…another reality...they need to learn to slow down and use their rational brain to keep their emotions in check... I'm not sure she'll learn this from couples therapy You might find this book helpful: The Chimp Paradox: The Mind Management Program to Help You Achieve Success, Confidence, and Happiness https://www.amazon.com/Chimp-Paradox-Management-Program-Conf...
on “Borderline Personality Disorder: Treatment Resistance Reconsidered” ↗The chimp paradox. Helped me to be cautious about my emotions. It made it a lot easier to visualize what’s happening inside my mind in a simple way.
on “Ask HN: Books that helped you become a better person?” ↗…making things, painting, animals etc. Use that as a carrot help draw him out. Even if he goes out by himself. Just doing things will help. - Read up on the topic and find books that might help. I like The Chimp Paradox books :)
on “Ask HN: How to help someone going through depression?” ↗The Chimp Paradox is probably my #1 general book recommendation because I think we would all be better off if we could better identify and manage our irrational impulses. It's one of those books that can genuinely improve…
on “Ask HN: What is one book you would recommend everyone to read?” ↗And learn everything about "mindful meditation" or "MBSR" (mindfulness based stress reduction). Practice daily. Then learn how to manage your emotions, read "The Chimp Paradox".
on “Happiness May Lie in Our Relationships” ↗…app to learn how to do it. I find making lists helpful. Whether that would be what I need to do today or long-term goals which I review every week. Also you might find the following book helpful: The Chimp Paradox: The Mind Management Programme to Help You Achieve Success, Confidence and Happiness It really helped me! Amazon link: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Chimp-Paradox-Management-Programme-...
on “Ask HN: Tips to beat procrastination and lethargy?” ↗…about offending the recipient. I'm not sure if this is coincidental, but anecdotally I found that my biggest shift in being able to let my creative work 'go' was after reading The Power of Now[0] and The Chimp Paradox[1], and practicing mindfulness. Fundamentally, I think it's an ego issue as to why it's so hard to take criticism. I'm certainly not saying ego-death is a prerequisite, but instead to learn how to short-circuit…
on “What was it like to be a software engineer at NeXT?” ↗…Next time you wake up, tell your brain, thank you for reminding me, but we already wrote this down - look. And read it aloud. Eventually your brain will get it and stop waking you up (you should read The Chimp Paradox -- about how your brain works)
on “Stress does turn hair gray, and it’s reversible” ↗That sounds a lot like the descriptions in the book "The Chimp Paradox", which posits that within us, there are both a chimp, and a human. The chimp reacts emotionally, the human reacts logically.
on “Ask HN: What mindset change made the biggest positive change for you?” ↗